| The topic of punishment is a
bit of a break from tradition for me.
Normally I am spewing forth the benefits of
positive teaching, which involves showing a dog how
to do things correctly and making sure they follow
through with your requests. And I have discussed
discipline in the past. Maybe not in the context
that some people associate discipline, meaning that
discipline equals punishment. But rather that
discipline involves maintaining consistent
(disciplined) order and structure for a dog to live
within, thereby not allowing them to stray outside
those boundaries and engage in inappropriate
behavior.
But let's face it, sometimes our dogs stray
outside of our boundaries, regardless of how
consistent we are and we feel compelled to punish
our dogs.
What kind of punishment is appropriate? Or
is it appropriate at all?
I really wish there were easy answers to those
questions, but there aren't. How you punish a dog
really has a lot to do with your personal beliefs
about punishment in general. To me, punishment is
the addition of something negative when the dog is
caught in the act of doing something wrong such as
an assertive tone saying "Bad dog" or "Phooey that"
or giving a dog a brief time-out period. This
time-out period has nothing to do with allowing the
dog to reflect on what it has done wrong, but rather
segregation from its pack members from whom it gets
the rewards of affection and praise.
In no uncertain terms should hitting your dog be
considered appropriate punishment - it is certainly
abuse. But I still see people choosing to hit their
dogs, be it a slap on the nose or on the rump.
Hitting is a reaction of frustration from us. There
is nothing in the natural canine vocabulary of
social gestures and postures that mimics slapping.
There is one behavior that fearful dogs display that
could be interpreted as an assault like hitting.
That is when a dog lashes out at another dog in
fear. The intention is to cause quick pain and then
vacate the area in fear of retribution. When we hit
a dog we can assume that is how they interpret that
action. We are afraid of them and are lashing out.
As a result we send a clear message that we are
unpredictable and therefore not capable of being a
good pack leaders as true pack leaders are confident
and predictable.
I personally am a very firm believer in
discipline rather than punishment. As I said earlier
the boundaries that you set for your dog should be
consistent and disciplined. What was off limits
yesterday is off limits today and tomorrow. And what
was allowed yesterday is allowed today and tomorrow.
When a dog has this disciplined, consistent order
from all members of its pack, it rarely ever
misbehaves and there is really never a need for
punishment. By showing this level of disciplined
order your dog also assumes that you are a competent
leader of its pack and therefore has no need to
challenge that position. When we are inconsistent
with the boundaries that our dog is to live within
is when our dog assumes we are incompetent of a
leadership position and begins a to challenge it
through inappropriate displays of behavior.
Dogs are not creatures that live within the
shadow of punishment. Meaning they don't go slinking
around waiting for an opportunity to be bad and
hoping that they don't get caught, like criminals.
They are creatures that live and thrive within the
disciplined boundaries of order and structure and
that is when they are truly happy and willing to
please us with good behavior. |